“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.”
Proverbs 18:21 ESV

While growing up, our family had a neighbor who lived next door. Before they moved, the renovators gave their house a new facelift, and they looked like a well-to-do, happy family. One day, while she was gardening in her backyard, the lady of the house saw me watching her. She gently called me closer. Our houses were separated by a concrete wall, but I went near it.
When I got closer, she reached out, touched my face gently, pinched my cheeks, and kissed me. She held my hand tenderly, not wanting to let go, and tears began to flow down her face. Then she opened up and shared her heart—she had lost her only daughter in a road accident during her freshman year of college.
A truck had hit her motorbike and dragged her for almost half a mile before it stopped. Her lifeless body was found under the tires of the truck. The couple also had a younger son. As the woman spoke, she kept showering me with affection, saying I looked so much like her daughter.
I had never seen her son talk to anyone except when he played with his dog. He seemed withdrawn and distant. I once asked her why her son never spoke to anyone or stayed in the house for long. She said their children used to argue often, and in one heated moment, her son had angrily cursed his sister—saying she would be hit by a truck and die. Tragically, just a few days later, that exact thing happened.
After that, her son was crushed by guilt, and the family blamed him for her death. A cheerful boy’s life changed forever because of words spoken in anger—words he probably never meant.
That story stayed with me for years. When I began reading the Bible, I was often reminded of that incident and the power of words. I gradually learned to guard my tongue and never speak carelessly. Even when someone speaks negatively over me or my family, I quickly cancel those words in the name of Jesus.
The Bible clearly reveals the power in spoken words. The heavens and the earth were created by the word of God.
John 1:1 says, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
Jesus Himself is described as the Word made flesh.
Scripture also says we overcome the enemy “by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of our testimony.” (Revelation 12:11)
Our words carry weight. They can build up or tear down individuals, families, and even nations. The Bible teaches that we will give an account for every careless word we speak.
In the Old Testament, sorcerers were sometimes hired to curse God’s people—showing that even the enemy understands the power of words. God listens carefully to what we say; He values and weighs our words. Yet often, we speak lightly and end a statement with “just kidding,” not realizing the spiritual authority behind our tongue.
The same authority that was in Jesus’ mouth is given to us. Jesus spoke to the fig tree, and it withered. He called Lazarus out of the grave, and he came alive. Life and death truly are in the power of the tongue.
So be cautious about what you speak in every circumstance.
Speak life into your hopeless situations.
Speak healing over your sick body.
Speak restoration over your lost children.
Speak victory against the enemy.
Speak faith over your promises.
Scripture says, “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.” (Matthew 12:34)
Set your heart right with God, and let your vocabulary align with the Kingdom of Heaven.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, help me to guard my tongue and use my words to speak life, not destruction. Let my speech be filled with faith, grace, and truth. May my words reflect the heart of Christ and bring healing wherever they go. In Jesus’ name, Amen.








