âSo she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, âYou are a God of seeing,â for she said, âTruly here I have seen him who looks after me.â Therefore the well was called Beer-lahai-roi; it lies between Kadesh and Bered.â Genesis 16:13â14 (ESV)

A few years ago, an actress took her own life shortly after completing a shoot. Her death shocked everyoneâher family, friends, and coworkersâbecause she showed no visible signs of sadness or distress. She looked cheerful, confident, and put together. Many of her colleagues said they never saw the slightest hint of sorrow. But behind the smile, she carried a weight so heavy that she could no longer bear it.
Many people go through life unnoticed like this. We may be surrounded by people, yet still invisible to them. A loving mother may notice even the smallest bruise on her child, and even as we grow, she can often sense when something is wrong. Yet even a motherâs love has limitsâthere are pains people cannot see, and struggles we cannot communicate.
But Scripture reminds us of something powerful: even when no one else sees, God sees. When others overlook us, misunderstand us, or fail to notice our painâGod is the God who watches, understands, and responds.
The story of Hagar is a beautiful reminder of this truth. Hagar was an Egyptian servant brought into Abrahamâs householdâlikely very young, perhaps between 15 and 20 years old. She was given to Abraham as a wife, not by choice, but by command. She had no sayâher voice, desires, and dignity were overlooked. She became pregnant quickly, and when tension arose, Sarah mistreated her harshly. Eventually, Abraham allowed Sarah to deal with her as she wished. Wounded, pregnant, and rejected, Hagar fled into the wilderness.
Life can be painfully unfair. Can you imagine the emotional weight that teenage girl carried? Used, dismissed, humiliated, and abandonedâshe ran into loneliness with no one to defend or comfort her.
But in the wildernessâwhere no one saw herâGod saw her. The Angel of the Lord appeared to her, spoke hope into her distress, and gave her a promise about her son and her future. Right there, beside a lonely spring of water, the place was named Beer-lahai-roi, and Hagar declared the first recorded name given to God in Scripture:
âYou are the God who sees me.â
What a powerful assurance for someone who thought she was forgotten.
This passage reminds us that God sees us in our darkness and in our distress. He sees us when betrayal wounds us and when our hearts ache with silent pain no one understands. He sees us when we walk through our own wilderness seasonsâoverlooked by people, yet never unseen by Him. His promises stands firm in every situation in our lives.
So rest today, not in what others notice or fail to notice, but in the confidence that you are seen, known, and deeply cared for by the God of Beer-lahai-roi.
Prayer:
Lord, thank You for being the God who sees me. Help me rest in Your presence and trust Your eyes upon my life, even when others overlook me. Ame








